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The beginning of hell

Filed under: Uncategorized — iwantmybabiesback at 6:59 pm on Sunday, June 21, 2009

This seems to be the perfect place to share my story as it plays out.On April 11, 2009 my children were removed from from my care.An officer decided was UI.I had only one of my children with me after searching my vehicle she realized I had two children…She then told me my children did not need me as a mother and was going to make sure that they were removed. I asked her if  I could call someone she said  ” No I think i’ll let the state decide”.I was arrested.I had never been arrested or in trouble before.My son was taken from me.I was forced to sit in a patrol car while they poked at my child.Assuming his strawberry birthmarks were something else.She refused to hear me.They were birth marks not bruises or something. They later picked up my other child…from my house.I refused to be booked without a phone call.I waited 15 hours for that call.I never got to make a call. Instead I recieved a call at the county jai l from social services.They told me my children had been placed in foster care asked me questions.That was that.I spent seven days in jail.They never proved I was UI.They never tested me.I took the deal the public defender offered because I couldn’t afford an attorney and didn’t know what else to do .I Still don’ t have my kids.They were removed from  my custody on May 11, 2009.I am now fighting to get them back.I have been a single parent from the day they were born.I have no family willing to take them both.There is more to this story than this but I will start from here.It Is now fathers day June 21, 2009.I have been compliant in all requests with the agency and they still do not want to return my children.They tell me possibly in November.I see my children two hours a week.Two hours out of 168 hours in a week.My daughter cry’s herself to sleep every night.Draws pictures of her crying.All she wants is to be with her mama..My son who constantly laughed and played is distant.He was 7mo when they took him and nearing 11mo now.I have done and will always do everything for my kids.All i want is my babies back.



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   mommyof4monkeys

June 27, 2009 @ 9:30 pm

My heart is broken for you. I hate that the burden of proof is on the parent, not the state. And that nobody seems to want to listen to us parents. Everything we say is brushed off as an “excuse”.

I hope you get your babies back. No child deserves to go through this, and no innocent parent either.

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   Martha May

September 2, 2009 @ 2:56 pm

Mommyof4monkeys is absolutely right no child should have to go through being put into the system. I will be praying for you and your family

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   ALLENA

April 27, 2010 @ 3:42 pm

They have taken myy children too, and they have no basis, no evidence, no reason except false allegations. So I am asking you if you had to do it over again is there anything you would do different when dealing with cps? do you think an attorney would have h elped you get your children back faster and do you have any advice for us? they are forcing us to take drug tests. I do not do drugs and I have no problem passing the test but I do not want to do it because I feel it is humiliating and degrading and they have no right to ask this of me. What would you suggest from your own experience? I do not want to play thier bull shit games but of course I do want my kids back.
Thanks Allena and Mike

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   iwantmybabiesback

May 4, 2010 @ 1:32 am

I don’t know what situation brought them into your lives.in my case I ended up taking a plea to charges I didn’t commit because first of all I couldn’t think clearly I was upset and my only focus was on my children. I was lied to and mislead that that was my best option by my public defender and I did not know any better. I had never been in trouble with the law before It was all very confusing and I didn’ t know what I was doing. perhaps if I would’ve had better advice in that case my cps case would have turned out differently that first court date. If the allegations are all false then hopefully you’ll do the tests and everything will be unfounded and they case will be dismissed or closed right away and they will return your children.Don’t let them bully you. As far as having an attorney for your cps case, If you have the option to hire a private attorney, absolutely do it. If you can’t afford one but you have the option for a public defender in your case get one. They may find a way to show that cps has no case against you at all. You may not like drug testing but if it will prove your not using do it. In my case I did as many as i could. I actually called them requesting them to test me. I wanted to make sure that they had as many as possible when we went to court. so there would be no question that I was not using. I had also heard of cps saying that someone hadn’t had enough tests done during the course of time till their court date so I didn’t want that to happen. keep copies of all paperwork they give you and keep it in a file and give copies to your attorney. I also wrote everything down. Visits with my children time I arrived and time they took them. how they went. When I talked to the case worker when she called back. If she took to long to get back to me I went to the supervisor and then called the attorney. The visits are very important. Don’t miss any. If they don’t bring the children then they need to reschedule you and you need to call your attorney to let him or her know whats going on. I can go on and on. I hope this helps a little for now.

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