Our Worst Nightmare

It has taken me some times to update this blog because the Sate of Nevada has single handedly decimated my family and that was not something I could write about easily. They think they have won but I have yet to begin to fight. My family is gone.  I am all that is left.  On April 9 2008 I was a happy loving doting mother of 2 beautiful girls and a proud military wife. Now as I sit here today I am neither a wife nor a mother. God took one of my girls but the state of Nevada took my other. When she needed her mommy the most, after her baby sister died, the ripped her away didnt even let us say goodbye and sent her to be with strangers. They say it was to protect her. Why? Because my house was messy! The only thing my daughter was in danger of was being loved too much and since there is no such thing as too much love I’d say she was in no danger at all. This has rocked me to my very core  and left me forever changed.  My marriage was never particularly strong, we had many problems but this was too much for it.  We are now divorcing.  So now I am all that is left.  They lied and twisted facts and played dirty and got my rights terminated and denied me contact to my daughter. Not only that but they have informed her that “mommy and daddy did bad things and so for your safety you can’t see them anymore”. We are appealing our case.  Now my daughter has been told it isnt safe to be with mom and dad. What if we win our appeal? What is that going to do to her mental  state? How can that be good for her?  But to them that is ok.  It is ok because THEY  arent the ones that have to look at her tear stained face every time she passes mommy and daddys house and tell her “no  we cannot stop by”  THEY  are not the ones that have to explain to her why when mommy calls her grandma to check on her that mommy isn’t allowed to talk to her.  They are not the ones who have to tell her through her sobs  “no sweetheart mommy and daddy CAN’T  come to your birthday party”  No, they let her grandma so that.  THAT isn’t their job description. They wouldn’t even allow me and her father one last visit to give her a hug and tell her that we DO love her very very much. DCFS thinks it has won. But I a not going to take it laying down.  Not only am I appealing my case to the supreme court and hope to expose them for the lying snakes they are but I have gone back to college.  I am now a SOCIAL WORK  major. I am going to start a foundation to combat these tyrants and to HELP families in crisis. Not threaten them or hurt them HELP them. Which forgive me if I’m wrong but isnt that SUPPOSED to be THIER job? Bt they wold rather resort to force and trickery so I will step up and be a help to families who need it. And there is nothing that DCFS can do about it.

In August we went for our Termination of Parental Rights trial. The matter is pending appeal so I will not go into detail just yet. However suffice it to say that the sate played dirty and twisted the fact and we had our rights terminated. Not only that but even though the judge recognized the strong bond between my daughter and I and her father too and issued nothing limiting our contact with her DCFS has since said that we are to have no contact with her what so ever. HOW IS THAT IN HER BEST INTERESTS mommy and daddy are there twice a week without fail and now suddenly POOF nothing. how can the state claim to care about what is best for Jessy and make such a restriction?